Most couples will ask their best friends and closest relatives to be part of their wedding party. Members of the wedding party can help with many different aspects of wedding planning—from choosing vendors and selecting wedding attire to mailing invitations and assembling favors. There's no set number of attendants required. Some couples keep it small, others include a large group, and many blend traditional roles with their own personal touches.

The main rule for what everyone wears is straightforward: follow the couple's dress code and guidance. The suggestions below are useful starting points, not requirements.

The wedding-party lineup

Maid or matron of honor & Best man

The maid or matron of honor and best man are usually the people closest to the bride and groom—often a sibling or dear friend. They may help with planning, provide emotional support, organize pre-wedding events, help the couple get dressed, sign the marriage license, and offer a toast. The best man typically holds the wedding rings, while the maid of honor may arrange the bride's train or hold her flowers during the ceremony. These two attendants usually walk down the aisle first and stand closest to the couple throughout.

What to wear: The maid of honor typically wears a dress coordinated with the bridesmaids' outfits. The couple may choose the color and style, or let the honor attendant select a look within an agreed color palette. A jumpsuit or suit works equally well if it suits the wedding's style.

The best man's outfit is coordinated with the groomsmen, often in the same suit or tuxedo with a small distinction such as a different tie, boutonniere, or pocket square.

Bridesmaids and groomsmen

These friends or family members stand with the couple during the ceremony and may help with events and day-of logistics.

What to wear: Attendants might wear matching outfits, coordinated colors, or individual looks that fit a shared dress code. For a more relaxed approach, the couple can set a color palette and let each person choose a cut and style they feel comfortable wearing.

Junior attendants

Some couples include younger siblings, relatives, or family friends as junior bridesmaids or groomsmen. Junior attendants are typically between ages 9 and 16. They participate in the celebration but usually have fewer responsibilities than adult attendants.

What to wear: A look that echoes the wedding-party outfits while being age-appropriate and comfortable. Coordinating colors or accessories can tie everything together without requiring a miniature version of an adult outfit.

Flower child

A flower child—often called a flower girl—is usually a close relative between 6 and 8 years old. The role isn't limited by gender, and some couples may even choose to include a pet. If it's a child, they may walk down the aisle scattering petals, carrying flowers, or simply joining the procession. They typically sit with their parents during the ceremony.

What to wear: The couple may choose an outfit that coordinates with the wedding party, but comfort matters most. Consider the weather, the child's age, and whether they'll be able to move freely. Petals aren't essential; a small bouquet or sign can work beautifully.

Ring bearer

The ring bearer is usually also between 6 and 8 years old. This attendant carries the rings and participates in the procession just before the flower girl, carrying the two wedding bands on a pillow. The rings are typically replicas so there's no risk of loss.

What to wear: Often a small suit, dressy outfit, or clothes that coordinate with the wedding party. If the child will carry the actual rings, it's wise for an adult to keep them secure until the ceremony begins.

Parents and other family members

Parents may play a meaningful role in the ceremony—walking someone down the aisle, giving a reading, or honoring a family tradition. Grandparents and other relatives can also be included in special ways.

What to wear: Unless the couple specifies a dress code or color, choose polished attire appropriate for the venue and season. Parents don't need to match the wedding party, but a quick conversation can help ensure the overall look complements the celebration.

Officiant

The officiant leads the ceremony. They may be a religious leader, civil officiant, or a friend or family member legally authorized to perform the wedding.

What to wear: The officiant should dress in a way that suits the ceremony and the couple's preferences. Some wear formal or traditional attire; others choose a simple outfit that blends seamlessly with the event.

A few helpful outfit guidelines

• Ask before buying or renting. The couple may have a preferred color, formality level, or shopping plan.
• Check the dress code. "Black tie," "cocktail," and "garden party" suggest different levels of formality.
• Prioritize fit and comfort. Everyone should be able to sit, walk, dance, and enjoy the day.
• Plan for the setting. Think about weather, uneven ground, long ceremonies, and indoor or outdoor photography.
• Make room for personal style. Coordinated doesn't have to mean identical.
• Clarify costs and deadlines early. Wedding-party members should know what they're expected to purchase or rent and when it's needed.

A wedding party can be traditional, informal, large, or small. What matters most is choosing people who feel meaningful to the couple—and helping everyone feel confident and prepared to celebrate together.